How should we define changes?
Do we want them or they just come when the time passes?
Few days ago I was talking to my friend about people who don’t see problems in certain things or even worse when they don’t know how to face them. That made me think that that’s the case why people are so afraid of changes in general. They don’t want to risk what they already have.
Everyone at least ones stems up on the crossroad and thought about ways which to choose. We are more likely to choose side where we are struggling with ourselves and push our boundaries to be the best at first. What is sad, when we don’t see results we turn back and pick side where we just accept they we can’t change anything and that it is how it is.
Worth mentioning is fact that those paths are not the only we can take. It’s called self-acceptance and is the most important thing if we are talking about changes. In contrast to ego that puts pressure and compares to get better ever time we should think about the way we implement our goals.
We also have to answer question if rational decision are the same as internal choices. Moreover, it’s not important how fast we achieve the aim but how much we are going to pay and if we are going to be happy after all!
It's all a bit abstract and hard to understand. Remember I asked you to strat with an observation (a very specific situation) and then reflect on this basis.
OdpowiedzUsuńTry to control your language better. I honestly don't understand most of your thoughts.